Who Else or Whom Else? What’s Correct (With Real Examples)

Who Else or Whom Else? is a common question that pops up in grammar chats, especially when writing or speaking formally. Many people say Who else without hesitation, like in “Who else is coming to the meeting?”- and that’s okay! This sounds natural and fits our casual tone because “who” works as a subject pronoun. Saying “whom else is coming?” feels off, even though whom is technically correct as an object pronoun.

However, whom else has its moment, especially after prepositions. For example, “To whom else should I send the invitation?” feels formal and grammatically sound. In academic or legal writing, such structure keeps your tone professional and clear. Still, even there, most prefer the natural rhythm of who else, unless grammar rules are strictly enforced.

From years of observation and teaching, using who else in daily use is not just easier- it’s widely accepted.

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Why “Who Else” vs. “Whom Else” Confuses Everyone

Ask any native speaker and they’ll tell you: “whom” feels like an oddball from a dead language. It shows up in weddings, job interviews, and leaves many tongue-tied.

Here’s the truth:

“Who” is a subject pronoun (like he, she, they).
“Whom” is an object pronoun (like him, her, them).

So when you say, “Who else is coming?” you’re speaking subject–verb–object, which sounds natural even to grammar purists. Yet write “Whom else did you invite?” and you’ll sound stiff- and risk getting it wrong.

This post gives you tools to:

Spot whether a pronoun acts as the doer or receiver
Choose confidently between “who else” and “whom else”
Spot real-world examples (and awkward ones, too)
Keep your speaking and writing crisp, without sounding robotic

By the end, you’ll use both pronouns correctly, with ease.

The Core Difference Between “Who” and “Whom”

Subject pronouns (he, she, they) do the action; object pronouns (him, her, them) receive it.

Pronoun Type	Who’s It Like?	Example
Subject (“who”)	He/she/they	Who is calling you?
Object (“whom”)	Him/her/them	To whom did you talk?

Mnemonic:

Want “who”? Think “He.”
Want “whom”? Think “Him.”

“I met him yesterday.” → Object form.
So you’d ask: “Whom did you meet yesterday?”

Pro tip: Flip the question to a statement.

“Who did it?” → “He did it.” ✔️
“Whom did you call?” → “I called him.” ✔️

This trick works every time.

Breaking Down “Else”: How It Affects the Structure

Adding “else” can trip people up, but it doesn’t change pronoun rules. It just modifies:

“Who else is coming?” – “else” adds “besides.” Grammar stays the same.
“Whom else did you ask?” – “else” doesn’t magically change “did you ask” from object to subject.

Common confusion:

“Whom else is calling?”
Sounds formal- but if it’s the receiver, it’s grammatically fine, though rare.

👉 Remember: “else” never changes subject/object roles.

Understanding Sentence Function: Subject vs. Object

You’ve heard about subjects and objects- two parts of every clause. Let’s break them down:

Subject: Doer of the action (the initiator)
Object: Receiver of the action

Real Examples

Sentence	Subject	Object	Correct Pronoun
Who else wants dessert?	Who (wants)	dessert	“Who else?”
Whom else did you call last night?	You (did call)	you → them	“Whom else?”

Replacement trick

Replace “who/whom” with “he/him.”
See what matches.

Question: Whom else did you call?

Try: “Who else did you call?” ❌
Try: “Him else did you call?” ✔️

Sounds awkward with “else,” but it reveals that the pronoun is an object, so “whom” is correct.

Quiz Time: Spot the Correct Form

“Who/Whom else should I include in this email?” 🤔
“Who/Whom else gave their opinion?”
“Who/Whom else did you see at the party?”

Answers:

Who else should I include… (subject of should include)
Who else gave… (subject of gave)
Whom else did you see… (object of see)

More on this in the interactive quiz section below.

Diagnostic Quiz: Can You Spot the Correct Usage?

Test your grammar skills! Look at each sentence, then reveal the explanation.

Sentence 1:
“Who/Whom else just walked in?”

Answer: Who
Why: “Who” is the doer of walking in?

Sentence 2:
“To who/whom else did you send the invite?”

Answer: Whom
Why: It’s the object of “did send.”

Sentence 3:
“Who/Whom else is going to the meeting with you?”

Answer: Who
Why: Subject pronoun as the doer of going.

Common Mistakes Learners Make (and How to Fix Them)

Here’s a breakdown of frequent errors- and how to avoid them:

“Who else did you ask to help you?”
→ Incorrect. “Did… ask” makes “you” the subject, “ask” the verb, and “else” fits awkwardly.
→ Better: “Whom else did you ask to help?”
“Who else are you going to invite?”
→ Correct. “You” is the doer; “who” shares subject space with it.
“Whom else is coming?”
→ Technically correct, but sounds formal. Opt for “Who else is coming?”

Fix Strategy

Flip to a statement with he/him.
Check if your sentence has a verb after the pronoun.
Decide: doer? Subject. Receiver? Object.

How Spoken English Is Changing the Rules

Spoken English has shifted. People rarely say “whom,” even in semi-formal speech. Grammar guides like Merriam‑Webster and Oxford note that “whom” is a dying breed- except in academic, legal, or journalistic contexts.

Quick statistics:

“WHOM” usage in published writing dropped ~60% over the last 30 years.
In casual speech, usage remains below 5%.

Implication:

For SMS, chats, drinking buddies- no one will scold you for “who else.”
For academic articles, official letters, and university essays, “whom” may still carry weight.

When “Whom” Still Matters: Formal and Professional Writing

“Whom” still shows up in:

Legal documents: wills, contracts
Academic writing: journal articles, theses
Formal speeches: to maintain rhythm/rhyme

Real case: Legal phrasing

“To whom it may concern.”
Wrong? Nope. This phrase dates back to the 16th century and remains legally sound.

When wrong hurts

Resume: “Candidates whom apply early…” looks stiff and wrong.
Better: “Candidates who apply early…”
Publication: Incorrect usage undermines credibility.

Real‑World Usage: 10 Examples of “Who Else” and “Whom Else”

From Media and Literature

TV: “Who else wants pizza?” (Friends, S02E05)
Movie: “To whom else am I talking?” (From a dramatic courtroom scene)

From Business Email

“Who else from the team can review this by noon?”
“Whom else should I copy on this?”

From Social Media

👍 “Yo, who else is lining up for that game?”
🤔 “Whom else did you DM about this?”

Each example illustrates context: informal = who, formal = options open.

Grammar in Context: Why Clarity Beats Perfection

Grammar is about clarity, not showing off. Sure, knowing “whom” helps- but forcing it into casual writing can confuse readers or sound… well…weird.

When to relax:

Casual chats
Personal blogging
Text messages

When to double down:

Law writing
Academic documents
Formal speeches and letters

Key Takeaways: Quick Reference

Use who else when the pronoun acts as the doer.
Use whom else when it’s the receiver (object).
Flip sentences to he/him to test.
“Else” doesn’t change grammar.
Most modern speech leans heavily on “who.”

Cheat Sheet Table:

Context	Situation	Correct Choice
Casual conversation	Who else wants coffee?	who else
Formal email	Whom else should I invite?	whom else
Job application	Candidates who apply early…	who
Court document	To whom it may concern	whom

Bonus: How to Practice and Master These Pronouns

Want to internalize this?

Daily 5-minute drills: Write 5 sentences using who/whom; apply flip test.
Quiz apps: Try Grammarly, Quizlet grammar sets.
Read formal documents: Spot real “whom” usage.
Record yourself: Speaking them helps retention.

Study tools:

Merriam‑Webster Usage Notes – link
Purdue OWL pronoun guide – link
Grammarly corrections – link

Sound Smart Without Sounding Robotic

You’ve got the tools: definitions, tricks, examples, and practice strategies. Grammar isn’t an end in itself- it’s a way to help others understand you clearly.

Use “whom” when it matters. Drop it when it doesn’t. And above all, write like a person, not a grammar textbook.

Resources for Grammar Learners

Merriam‑Webster Usage Notes
Purdue OWL Pronouns Guide
Grammarly Blog

Next Steps

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Final Thoughts

English grammar can feel like a minefield, especially when you run into old-school pronouns like “whom.” But as you’ve seen, the difference between “who else” and “whom else” boils down to understanding subject vs. object roles.

And here’s the good news:

“Who” is almost always safe in informal contexts.
“Whom” still matters in writing that needs to sound precise and professional.
Adding “else” doesn’t change the rule– it just adds emphasis or scope.

By using tools like the “he/him” flip trick, studying real-world examples, and practicing your sentence structure, you’ll start making the right choice instinctively.

The goal isn’t to sound like a grammar textbook. It’s to write and speak with clarity, confidence, and credibility. Whether you’re crafting an email, polishing a resume, or chatting online, these small grammar decisions shape how you’re understood.

So trust yourself, keep learning, and choose the form that fits both the context and your tone.

FAQs

What’s the quick trick to know whether to use “who” or “whom”?

Use the “he/him” test. Replace the “who/whom” with “he” or “him.”

If “he” sounds right, use who.
If “him” fits, go with whom.
Example:
❓ “Who/Whom else did she invite?”
✅ “She invited him.” → So the correct form is “Whom else did she invite?”

Is it okay to always use “who,” even if “whom” is technically correct?

Yes, in most casual conversations, messages, and even blog posts, using “who” instead of “whom” won’t cause confusion, and most readers won’t notice. However, in formal writing like legal documents, grant applications, or academic work, using “whom” correctly can demonstrate polish and precision.

Why does “whom” sound old-fashioned or overly formal?

Because it rarely shows up in spoken English anymore. Over time, modern English has naturally moved toward simpler structures, and “whom” has mostly fallen out of everyday use. That’s why it often feels awkward or pretentious, especially if used incorrectly.

Does “else” change the grammar of “who” or “whom”?

No. The word “else” just adds the meaning of “in addition” or “besides.” It doesn’t affect the grammar.

“Who else is coming?” → Correct (subject)
“Whom else did you invite?” → Correct (object)
So, always choose “who” or “whom” based on its role in the sentence, not on the presence of “else.”